There are many different ways of carrying out your duties as Godparent, but one of the most important things to do is to build a relationship with your Godchild.

You may already know a child well before you are asked to be a Godparent, but if not, try to make a start before the Christening takes place.

Make time to see your godchild as regularly as you can. Try to give him or her one-to-one attention: find out what makes them tick, what makes them happy or sad.

Christening anniversaries are a good occasion for you to get together and think again about what the Baptism was all about

Most adults find it hard to really get to know a baby, but as your Godchild grows up it will become easier, so keep on making the effort.

Your Godchild's confirmation is a very important opportunity for you to make yourself available - not just at the ceremony, but in the lead up to it. Get involved in the thought process that leads up to it. Talk it through.

Don't think that confirmation is the end of your godparenting responsibilities. It can be the beginning of the time they need you most.
That delightful little angel may be developing into a surly and aggressive teenager (called Kevin). Chances are that this is when they most need to be able to talk to an adult who is not one of their parents.

Thereafter a Godparent can continue to provide a role model and influence in career and relationship matters, as well as matters more spiritual, for many years to come.

The more you put in to Godparenting, the more you and your Godchild will get out.